A few things exist on my list that are mandatory for summer success. Because, let’s face it, many of us live in Michigan for the summers, falls and near-perfect weather that we enjoy. Of course, that’s easy for me to say on the sweltering 90 plus days. I just jump in the lake.

So, here are some of the rules for the summer of 2019.

We have three to four weeks to make new memories before Dave is admitted into Karmanos for his second bone marrow transplant. Next week, tests will be performed on his heart and lungs to ensure that they can withstand another difficult procedure. In the meantime, he needs to relax, swim and play while I work my magic on helping him eat plenty to gain weight and increase his strength and stamina. Although not much of a napper, the recovery from the Besponsa (Inotuzumab) has him requiring naps most afternoons. He has finally welcomed that part of recuperation.

Both Dave and I look forward to our quiet cup of coffee on the deck each morning. Following the mandatory rule of flip flops is a go, but soaking up the sun is a no. His skin cannot tolerate the scorching sun, nor can he tolerate the humidity very well. So, he does “wet a line” occasionally hoping to catch a fish or two, but time outside is a bit limited right now. We will enjoy campfires in the next few evenings when the days and nights are a little cooler. But every moment is relished and enjoyed. We are so thankful that another opportunity for a cure is available.

If I could add one last thing to the lake rules list, it would be to pray often. I still pray that the “miracle” remission is followed by complete healing. The second bone marrow transplant will be more difficult, but Dave is motivated and ready to take this on again. So as the lake rules go, we have some living to do before August. Our summer will be seemingly short, but I’m sure it will be a success.