Celebrating a birthday is always special, but we now look at so many simple celebrations as monumental. Turning 64 years old, and looking back over the last six years, Dave is the epitome of being gifted in so many ways. Not talent wise, but the receiver side of being gifted. Blessed. Here’s how.
Dave received a timely message to top off an already memorable day. His donor from his last transplant in August of 2019 emailed him to introduce himself. Contact is not allowed until two years after receiving the transplant because of the sensitivity of this medical procedure. Not all transplants go well; not all receivers of bone marrow transplants live to tell their stories. I can only imagine how difficult it must be to begin that conversation. Not knowing anything about the stranger halfway around the world you donated your marrow to, one must wonder how this message might be received. He probably thought, “I’ll just keep it short, sweet and to the point,” not realizing how we have been telling our story for quite some time.
Hello Mr. Sontag,
I am Jonas Beutler from Germany. Some time ago, I donated stem cells to you. Perhaps you remember. I received your email address and have been thinking about writing to you for a long time. Today is the moment when I feel ready. I wanted to ask how you are doing and how you fared before and during the donation. I would be delighted to hear from you.
Greetings from Germany
Kind regards
Jonas Beutler
Goosebumps, right? On the evening of Dave’s birthday, he received an email from the one who helped save his life! Ironic maybe, but more in line with what His purpose has always been. Our journey is a portrait of prayer, hope, resilience, and what support can do for a cause. Here is Dave’s reply the next day:
Hi Jonas –
This is Dave Sontag. It’s ironic that you sent me a message yesterday. I’ve been in the process of reaching out to you. I think this was meant to be. I could go on forever. and I will send you bits and pieces from my leukemia experience. The bottom line is, I am doing very well. I just celebrated my 64th birthday yesterday.
After a bone marrow transplant, a CAR T-Cell infusion and your bone marrow transplant, I finally went into remission and have been there since the August 21, 2019, transplant.
I still have ancillary issues that I have to deal with because of all the chemotherapy and radiation that were necessary to take my blood counts down to zero. However, leukemia has stayed away. I’m a retired educator and coach. I am back working with kids and coaching. It has been a pretty nice post-retirement gig.
I’d like to stay in touch with you. It would even be nice to meet you one day. Thank you for reaching out and thank you for saving my life. I thank God every day that I can do what I can do.
“Energy and persistence conquer all things.”
With sincerity,
–Dave
It has been almost six years since that battle began, and over four years since Dave has been cancer-free. He has been gifted another opportunity to do many of the things he loves. Thank you, Jonas, for your selfless act, your sense of service to others, and giving us the gift of a longer lifetime together.
With heartfelt thanks, Dave and Michelle
Hiking at the Walls of Jericho, Alabama with Susan, Amy and Brendan- December 2023